Leave Not Approved - The Wild School Rule

When cookbook author and influencer Sarah’s holiday plans with her 6-year-old were suddenly stamped “unauthorised,” it lit up headlines — and sparked a question every parent asks: Is a week off school really that big a deal?

In this episode, Justin and Kylie dive into the tug-of-war between school rules and family priorities. Do term-time holidays harm learning, or can real-life experiences sometimes matter more? You’ll hear the research, the rules (state by state), and the reality for families just trying to make it work.

KEY POINTS

• The viral story that sparked the debate: Sarah’s denied leave mid-flight.
• Why rules vary wildly depending on your postcode (NSW vs. QLD vs. VIC).
• What the research really says about missing school — even just a few days.
• The cost factor: why many families can’t afford school-holiday travel.
• When family connection, culture, and life experience outweigh the timetable.
• Practical tips for working with schools to find a middle ground.

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

"The real question isn’t about holidays — it’s whether we trust parents to make wise, nuanced decisions for their kids." – Justin Coulson

RESOURCES MENTIONED

• Happy Families Website
• Connect with us on Instagram & Facebook

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

1. Check your state’s rules before booking — policies differ widely.
2. Communicate early and respectfully with your child’s school.
3. Choose timing wisely (avoid early weeks, assessment blocks, or transition times).
4. Weigh family priorities — cost, connection, cultural experiences — alongside school routines.
5. Remember the big picture: One week doesn’t define your child’s education.

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