Forgiving a Narcissist, Why?

In this episode I’m going to talk about something I’ve personally struggled with a lot, forgiveness, especially when it comes to forgiving a Narcissist.  If you know anything about forgiveness it’s most likely because you’ve heard about it at some point in time in your life at church.  The message that was (and still is) preached is that we should forgive others because we have been forgiven.  But why?  Why am I supposed to give my offender a “get out of jail free” card while I’m left holding my bleeding heart.  It didn’t sound fair and I didn’t like it one bit.