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Domain and Consent: The Key to Healthy Communication

Author
Helping The Heard
Published
Fri 11 Apr 2025
Episode Link
https://do-you-feel-heard.zencast.website/episodes/domain-and-consent-the-key-to-healthy-communication

In this episode, Ian and Dawson dive into the concept of "domain" from Dr. Betty Martin’s work—unpacking emotional responsibility, boundaries, consent, and the subtle dynamics of interpersonal communication.


Time Stamps:
00:00 – Intro and Explanation of Domain

00:54 – What Belongs in Your Domain? (Feelings, Body, Beliefs, etc.)

03:12 – Understanding Boundaries vs. Limits

05:28 – Real-Life Example: Work Conflict and Emotional Boundaries

07:03 – Reaching into Someone's Domain: The Fruit Tree Metaphor

13:44 – Trying to Change Others: Personal Story from Dawson

20:21 – Is It Ever Okay to Try and Change Someone?

26:14 – No One Can Make You Feel Anything: A Powerful Truth

33:23 – Accountability vs. Blame in Relationships

39:40 – Understanding Infidelity Through the Lens of Domain

46:58 – Communication Breakdown and Energy Deficits

50:44 – Final Thoughts on Relationships, Domain, and Presence


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