In this episode, Ian and Dawson dive into the concept of "domain" from Dr. Betty Martin’s work—unpacking emotional responsibility, boundaries, consent, and the subtle dynamics of interpersonal communication.
Time Stamps:
00:00 – Intro and Explanation of Domain
00:54 – What Belongs in Your Domain? (Feelings, Body, Beliefs, etc.)
03:12 – Understanding Boundaries vs. Limits
05:28 – Real-Life Example: Work Conflict and Emotional Boundaries
07:03 – Reaching into Someone's Domain: The Fruit Tree Metaphor
13:44 – Trying to Change Others: Personal Story from Dawson
20:21 – Is It Ever Okay to Try and Change Someone?
26:14 – No One Can Make You Feel Anything: A Powerful Truth
33:23 – Accountability vs. Blame in Relationships
39:40 – Understanding Infidelity Through the Lens of Domain
46:58 – Communication Breakdown and Energy Deficits
50:44 – Final Thoughts on Relationships, Domain, and Presence
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