After a long and winding road, David and Ernie were able to affirm:
Ernie then shared his belief that hierarchical authority structures are fatally flawed because they discourage the very authenticity and humility necessary for growing in love. David conceded those problems, but challenged Ernie's exclusive focus on non-hierarchical alternatives. Surprisingly, Ernie conceded the point, perhaps because he was excited about exploring a new model (building on David's moderation last week), and didn't really care whether it was hierarchical or not.
In this model:
Intriguingly, this resembles the sort of Test-Driven Development both Ernie and David practice with software. And created a context where they were able to mutually affirm each other's value in this journey.
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