279. How To Know If A Dementia Caregiver Support Group Is Actually Helping You

“Not long ago, I had a conversation with someone who called my coaching community a support group… It is supportive… But here’s the difference.” 

In Episode 279, Lizette explains why many groups offer comfort but send you home with the same questions—and how a Christ-centered, facilitated community equips you to walk faithfully tomorrow.

1) Comfort vs. Equipping

Support groups can be valuable, but if you only vent, you won’t be prepared for midnight pacing or refusal to bathe. A Christian caregiving community should ground you in Scripture and give you skills you can use this week (Eph. 4:11–12).

2) Surviving vs. Stewarding

“Surviving your dementia caregiving journey is not enough. God is calling you to steward…” Stewardship is part of your sanctification, aimed at God’s glory and your good—order, not chaos, because “God is not a God of confusion.”

3) Peer Advice vs. Christ-Anchored Guidance

Peer-led tips have limits. A facilitated, gate-kept community brings seasoned guidance plus believers who pray, apply Scripture, and practice relationship-centered caregiving that begins with your relationship with God. (1 Pet. 4:10; Col. 3:16.)

4) Catharsis vs. Transformation

Venting (catharsis) may feel good, but stewardship and sanctification change you. “Be doers of the word” (James 1:22).

Signature Question → Action Steps

In her live coaching, Lizette always starts here: “what will make this easier in six months.” Then identify what’s in the way and leave with concrete steps. That’s the heartbeat of the Think Different Dementia Method™, Therapeutic Truth-Telling™, and the Contented Caregiver Blueprint™—caregiving clarity anchored in Scripture.

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