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Bring the passion back when your relationship gets meh | Masculine & Feminine Polarity | E16

Author
Deeper Sex Podcast
Published
Wed 12 Feb 2025
Episode Link
https://deepersexpodcast.podbean.com/e/e16-how-to-restore-masculinefeminine-polarity-to-bring-the-passion-back-when-your-relationship-gets-meh/

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Changing gears with Season 2, love and intimacy coaches Will and Chiara explain in very simple terms the concept of relationship Polarity, and the importance of balancing the masculine and feminine energies that you input in a relationship - regardless of your gender.


They show how a polarity imbalance often leads to conflict, blaming, and general relationship unhappiness and unease.


In this episode, they offer insights and provide practical tips for how couples can bring harmony back to their relationships. By stepping back, showing vulnerability, and understanding each other's perspectives, couples can navigate their differences and bring back the “Lover’s Energy” that initially brought them together.


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TIME STAMPS


00:34 What We Prepared For You In Season 2


01:38 Let's Talk About Polarity in Relationships


02:31 What Women Blame Men For


03:38 What Men Blame Women For


06:27 Often Men Feel Powerless


10:36 Do We Both Have Masculine and Feminine Traits?


13:41 Both Partners Need To Contribute To The Masculine/Feminine Balance In The Couple


15:25 How Do We (Re)establish Polarity?


17:55 Restore The "Lover's" Energy


24:20 Why It's So Important To Show Vulnerability To Your Partner


25:06 What Goes Wrong In Relationships When You Hide Your Vulnerable Side


28:31 What He Needs To Do To Make Her Feel Safe


32:38 What Is Real Masculinity Today?


36:40 It's Difficult To "Just Receive"


38:13 Connect With Your Feminine Side (regardless of your gender)


43:00 How Do We Connect Deeper?


43:17 1. It's A Dance For Two


43:37 2. Listen To This With Your Partner


44:47 4. Acknowledge That All Emotions Are Valid


45:17 5. Temporarily Suspend Your Belief


45:38 6. Ask Yourself: What Am I Really Yearning For?


46:00 7. Make Space To Receive From Your Partner


46:44 8. Don't Apologise For Your Emotions


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