EP. 9: The Power of Embracing Your Full Embodied Self with Dr. Jose "Joey" Tapia, PhD, LPC

Summary

 In this conversation, Alefyah Taqui and Joey Tapia reconnect after years apart, exploring Joey's journey into therapy, his experiences with the deaf community, and the challenges he faced in his professional and personal life. Joey shares how his initial struggles in psychology led him to find his passion in rehabilitation counseling, particularly with the deaf and hard of hearing community. He reflects on overcoming insecurities related to his education and confronting internalized racism and homophobia. The discussion highlights the importance of authentic connections and building a supportive community, especially as a gay man navigating his identity within a predominantly brown community. In this conversation, Joey Tapia shares his journey of coming out, the support he received from his family, and the importance of finding a community that embraces his identity. He discusses the challenges of navigating cultural identity and the significance of being intentional about the spaces he occupies, especially in professional settings. The dialogue highlights the need for authenticity in therapy and the impact of experiential learning in creating a sense of belonging. Joey emphasizes the importance of connection and gratitude towards those who have supported him in his journey.

• Joey's journey into therapy was not linear but rather a series of explorations.


• His passion for helping people was ignited by his interest in American Sign Language.


• The shift to working with the deaf community provided a sense of belonging.


• Joey faced challenges in his early education, feeling lost and unmotivated.


• He found empowerment in expressing his full identity through sign language.


• Transitioning to a rehabilitation counselor allowed him to support the deaf community more effectively.


• Joey's experience in a post-acute brain injury rehab facility was transformative.


• Going back to school was a pivotal moment for Joey, driven by curiosity and a desire to improve.


• He confronted internalized racism and homophobia during his educational journey.


• Building a new community in Colorado was intentional and fulfilling for Joey. Coming out can be a liberating experience when met with love.


• Finding a supportive community is crucial for self-discovery.


• Cultural identity plays a significant role in personal growth.


• Intentionality in choosing spaces can enhance one's sense of belonging.


• Experiential learning in therapy fosters deeper connections.


• Authenticity in therapy leads to more effective practice.


• Gratitude towards supportive individuals is essential.


• Navigating professional spaces requires self-awareness and intention.


• Building connections with others can provide motivation and strength.


• It's important to communicate appreciation to those who support us.

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Find Dr. Jose “Joey” Tapia, PhD,LPC:

⁠Vanda Counseling Collective⁠

⁠https://www.vandacounseling.org/joey-tapia⁠

⁠Deaf Dove⁠

Follow Dr. Joey:

IG: @dr.joeyt

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Find Alefyah:

Therapy/Consultation: ⁠⁠www.taquitherapy.com⁠⁠

Podcast Episodes: ⁠⁠www.deconstructingtherapy.com⁠⁠

IG: ⁠⁠@taquitherapy⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠@deconstructingtherapy⁠⁠

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Special Thanks: George Alvarez