Setting boundaries is different for every attachment style because each attachment style has different needs, fears, and beliefs around relationships. For example, people with an anxious attachment tend to struggle with setting boundaries because they fear abandonment and rely on others for their sense of self-worth. People with avoidant attachments tend to set rigid boundaries and push others away because they fear intimacy and vulnerability.
It is important to set boundaries because it allows us to protect our physical, emotional, and mental health, as well as maintain healthy relationships with others. Without boundaries, we may become overwhelmed, resentful, and taken advantage of, which can lead to feelings of frustration, anger, and disappointment. By setting boundaries, we communicate our needs and expectations to others, build mutual respect, and foster trust in our relationships.