S2 EP13: Foreplay Starts Outside The Bedroom: Ruts, Buffers, & Sex Talks

In this episode, Mya and K get real about sexual ruts, initiating intimacy, and why great sex often starts before you even hit the bedroom (or your fav sexytime spot). They dive into the difference between being a "spontaneous" versus "responsive" partner, and how understanding your style can totally shift your relationship dynamic.

They explore how emotional connection, mental foreplay, and clear communication are just as essential as physical touch — and why intimacy isn’t just about sex.

Mya and K also unpack the shame and stigma many of us carry around sex — especially if you grew up being told it was inappropriate to talk about. They're here to challenge that narrative and empower you to have honest, open conversations with your partner.

Plus, they weigh in on the latest duality of feminism debate: Can hot girls be feminists? Spoiler alert — yes, and here’s why…

Time stamps: (0:00) Belly Welly scoop marketing (5:00) Ruts in relationships (10:00) What does healthy sex look like to you (14:00) Sexual touch without expectations (21:00) Responsive VS Spontaneous (25:00) Scheduling sex (32:00) “I feel like something’s off” let’s talk about it (38:00) Can hot girls be feminists?

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Inspired by Sex Therapist, Vanessa Marin! <3