Ep. 32: Gamifying Chores to Be the Fun Parent with a Clean House with Chiao Dyi

Summary:

In this episode, we’re joined by Chiao Dyi—career coach, podcaster, and mom of three—who shares how she brings her project management mindset into parenting by turning chores into games. From before-and-after room cleanups to sock-matching races with chocolate prizes, Chiao Dyi gives us a behind-the-scenes look at how she keeps her kids engaged and her house running smoothly. Plus, she draws powerful parallels between managing a household and managing a career, showing how fun, structure, and incentives can transform even the most dreaded tasks.

Key Takeaways:

• Chores don’t have to be a battle—they can be playful, empowering, and even motivating.
• Benchmarking progress against your own starting point fosters confidence and reduces sibling rivalry.
• Rewards don’t have to be big—simple prizes like choosing dinner or skipping a walk go a long way.
• Many parenting strategies also apply in leadership and team management.
• Gamifying routines can be especially helpful for neurodiverse individuals or those who thrive on structure and incentives.

Quotes from the Episode:

- “It’s not just about making chores fun—it’s about teaching them life skills, self-awareness, and motivation.” – Chiao Dyi

- “I’m just riding this out until it stops working—then we’ll mix it up. That’s life, right?” – Chiao Dyi

- “One of my kids said, ‘Okay, what’s the next game we’re gonna play?’ And I was like… music to my ears!” – Chiao Dyi

Resources Mentioned:

• Podcast: Parenthood Bytes (https://parenthoodbytes.co/) – Hosted by Chiao Dyi, featuring interviews with parents in tech
• Parenting Tip: Use before-and-after photos as a self-comparison tool
• Incentives Used: Walk passes, chocolate pieces, choosing family meals

If you try any of Chiao Dyi’s chore games, let us know! We’d love to hear how it goes in your house.

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