The Honeymoon Phase: Butterflies or Just Anxiety?

In this episode, Amelia and Lilly dive into the infatuation-filled fog of new relationships—also known as the honeymoon phase… or, as they lovingly call it, boyfriend sickness. They explore what happens when all your time, energy, and identity start orbiting a new partner—and what that shift means for your friendships, your autonomy, and your group chats that have suddenly gone quiet.

With stories like Amelia’s grandma’s dating escapades and Lilly’s lessons on merging partner and friend worlds, they break down the emotional whiplash of early love, the loss of “I” language, and why some of your best friendships might quietly take a hit during those first few months of romantic bliss.

This one’s a must-listen if you’ve ever felt torn between being obsessed with someone and accidentally ghosting your best friends.

Therapy-Informed Takeaways:

• The honeymoon phase is exciting—but intense connection can unintentionally isolate you.
• “Boyfriend sickness” is real: infatuation often pulls focus from friends and routines.
• If everything becomes “we,” check in with yourself—and your people.
• Friendships can stretch, but they still need care and communication.
• Different relationship stages (like long-distance or 24/7 closeness) impact how this phase feels.
• Healthy check-ins help you avoid resentment before it builds—on either side.
• You’re allowed to be in love and still make space for the ones who’ve been there all along.

Related Episodes:

• Timelines and Reclaiming Your Path
• Relationship Milestones That Matter

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