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Dating The Twitch Streamer on Discord: the Nerd Love Story of Luna and Jason

Author
Alex | Dating Anxiety Coach for Nerds
Published
Wed 11 Jun 2025
Episode Link
https://www.rolltodate.com/podcast/twitch-streamer-on-discord/

๐Ÿ’ฌ Finding love on Discord is possible. Even if your Player 2 is the streamer who created the server. That said, there are some things you should keep in mind and that you want to avoid. After all, you can't meet anyone in person if you get banned! ๐Ÿ“ต

In this episode, GamerMomLuna and Jason share how they went from a Twitch chat NPC to streamer relationship to a co-op campaign building a life under the same roof ๐Ÿก It wasn't an overnight evolution, and it wasn't planned, either.

๐Ÿ–ฅ๏ธ Jason had been watching Luna's streams and participating in the chat for a while before deciding to join her Discord. There, he was just another member joining random conversations. One day, a single thread turned into an epic-long dialogue. The rest of the server wasnโ€™t invested, but theyโ€™d rolled a natural 20 on connection. It was time to move to a private conversation ๐Ÿคซ

โ˜๏ธ They are the perfect example of how to transition from regular chat to DM. It's not about finding an excuse good enough to slide into someone's DMs. After all, they can block you, report you, or ghost you. It's about knowing that they want to hear from you as much as you want to hear from them ๐Ÿ™‚โ€โ†•๏ธ

Once there, the usual conversation rules apply. Talk about your shared passions, and get to know the person behind the screen. Eventually, the curiosity might kick in, and you can go on a date, hang out, or even invite them to your next TTRPG session! ๐ŸŽฒ


๐ŸŽง Press play if you're hoping to meet someone online! ๐Ÿ›œ


๐Ÿ–ค FREE GUIDE: Where (And How) To Meet Your Player 2 Organically ๐ŸŽฎย 

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๐Ÿ“ฑ Have questions? Join me on Discord! https://www.datelikeanerd.com/discord


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Timestamps for lazy nerds:

  • 00:00:00 Intro
  • 00:00:43 What Makes Them Nerds
  • 00:02:01 Twitch Streamer's Discord
  • 00:06:16 Transitioning to DMs
  • 00:10:11 More Than Friends
  • 00:13:41 First Date
  • 00:19:23 Making it Official
  • 00:21:54 Avoiding The Friend Zone
  • 00:26:48 From Discord to DMs
  • 00:28:20 Extra Life

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