#73: Dance Studio Favoritism? What Parents Should Do (and NOT Do)

Your child comes home crying after class—and as a parent, your first instinct is to fix it. But here’s the truth: the way you approach the situation can either support your child’s growth… or hold them back.

In this episode of Dance Colleges and Careers, Brittany Noltimier (studio owner, professional dancer, competition judge, and lifelong “studio kid”) shares how parents can navigate tough moments like casting disappointment, favoritism concerns, and front-row frustrations.

We’ll cover:

• Why comparing your child to others keeps them stuck
• How to handle “favorites” and front-row placement with perspective
• What guest choreographers are really looking for
• The #1 way to help your child move forward (hint: it’s not sending a nasty email)
• Better questions to ask your child when they’re upset after class

This episode is all about shifting from complaints to growth—so your dancer can thrive with confidence all year long.

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