Proverbs 6:16-17a - Pride and Embracing Fellowship

Ancient wisdom about pride as a barrier to connection is surprisingly backed by modern neuroscience, revealing that judgmental looks trigger the same neural pathways as physical pain. Research shows that these subtle expressions of judgment can create "social distance" with far-reaching effects on our relationships and overall wellbeing.

• 78% of people can detect judgment through facial expressions alone without words
• Judgmental looks activate the same neural pathways as physical pain
• Repeated exposure to subtle judgment can lead to "learned helplessness" and social withdrawal
• Positive interactions release oxytocin (the trust hormone) and reduce stress hormones by up to 48%
• People exhibiting judgmental behavior have elevated cortisol levels, harming themselves too
• Both positive and negative attitudes spread through social networks up to three degrees of separation
• Consciously replacing judgmental thoughts with curious ones can rewire our neural pathways
• Small moments of connection or judgment create ripple effects throughout our social fabric

Make a conscious effort to practice empathy and curiosity in your interactions today. These small choices shape not just individual encounters but who we become and how we affect others.

Proverbs 6:16-17

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