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Will a Vasectomy Kill Her Desire for You?

Author
Dad Starting Over
Published
Mon 09 Jun 2025
Episode Link
https://share.transistor.fm/s/d72af15b

In this Dear DSO episode, we’re diving into a common and surprisingly emotional question:
 "If I get a vasectomy, will my wife still want me?"

This one came from Matt — a father of three, married for five years, and totally done having kids… but now he’s worried that the snip might lead to a dead bedroom.

We break down:

  • The primal fears behind vasectomy anxiety
  • Whether a man’s fertility is linked to attraction
  • The truth about women’s desire post-snip
  • How stress and resentment play a bigger role than biology
  • Why anxious thoughts can sabotage your relationship

If you’re married, done having kids, and wondering if a vasectomy will ruin your sex life… this one’s for you.

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