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1618th Rescription: Discipline or Bullying? Pondering Childhood Rules: Exploring Parenting Practices, Food Battles, and the Thin Line between Discipline and Humiliation

Author
John and Kanika
Published
Thu 05 Oct 2023
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Remember those 'senseless rules' from our childhood that made no sense but we had to comply with anyway? Well, we're taking you down memory lane as we explore some bizarre yet common disciplinary methods we grew up with. We share a personal story of a relative who had to endure an embarrassing punishment involving tape and a public setting, and delve into how such practices might be more harmful than effective. As social media witnesses more instances of humiliation as a form of discipline, we question the alarmingly thin line between parenting and bullying.

If you've ever been forced to clean up your plate even when you were full, then you know how frustrating rigid eating rules can be! We reminisce about how food was a battleground in our homes growing up. We also address the bigger issues of privilege and the lack of adequate nutrition that can stem from such rules. The conversation then shifts to how minor adjustments in portion sizes could have a lasting positive impact on our children's health. 

As we delve further into parenting rules, we discuss the often-debated topic of curfews. Is it fair to have the same curfew for both sons and daughters? Should age and maturity be a factor? And do we unknowingly project our likes and dislikes onto our children? Reflecting on our own experiences with curfews, we spend some time talking about the need for safe spaces for kids. We wrap up the episode by stressing the importance of teaching our children about physical affection, consent, and accountability. Join us for this raw and honest discussion about parenting, discipline, and the values we pass on to our children.

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