038. AITA for telling a candidate to shut up

In this episode, I dive into an 'Am I the Asshole' post that's been on my mind. The story revolves around a job interview gone awry, where an interviewer tells a candidate to 'shut up and listen.' I explore this event from a compassionate coaching perspective, shedding light on human psychology, nervous system regulation, and the importance of effective communication.

We discuss how stress and pressure can disrupt our behavior, the concept of the window of tolerance, and how both the candidate and interviewer could have handled the situation better. Tune in to uncover valuable insights on maintaining professionalism and improving your interactions in high-stress situations.

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00 The Job Interview Gone Wrong

01:23 Welcome Back to the Channel

02:30 The Interview Breakdown

05:05 Understanding the Window of Tolerance

08:40 The Candidate's Perspective

09:25 The Interviewer's Perspective

12:23 The Importance of Nervous System Regulation

15:42 Final Thoughts and Viewer Comments

19:23 Conclusion and Next Steps

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