1358 Are You Busy?

Just when you think you have some time to yourself, then the question. Are you busy? 

Really?!? All I wanted was a little time to myself. And now what?

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You can't escape the children. And now the husband. What else does he need?

Those days when you feel like you are on-call 24/7. Being a mommy never ends. But what about a break from the hubby. Can't he find something to eat on his own?

We may chuckle at this scenario, but it happens. 

Overall, asking if you are busy or available really isn't the issue. What is the issue is when you begin feeling that your time is being steamrolled. 

"Am I worth anything more than doing stuff for you?"

Over time, you begin to question your identity, self-worth. Am I worth more than what I produce?

Is there more to life than me serving?

Expectations are set prior to marriage. And then when you say "I Do", you continue those expectations because everything is new and fresh.

But then we get comfortable in our relationship. We settle in. It's like that old sweatshirt. 

To marry the individuality with the couple takes work. We don't want to lose part of ourselves. When the children come along, we get tired. 

As this continues in your marriage, you become resentful. It can turn into bitterness.

The breakdown of the marriage is in full swing. 

If you are tired of being hung upon with the assumption that you are always available, then boundaries need to be set to create a healthy marriage.

The K.I.S.S. ~ Create healthy boundaries!

This is for you, and you and your husband as a couple; self and couple.

1. Set boundaries for you. What do you need to be your best selfie?
2. Set boundaries for you all as a couple. 
3. Set boundaries for you as a family.

"Are you busy?" doesn't have to be the phrase that puts you on edge. 

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