1582 Love Even When You're Mad

How much do you argue with your sweetheart? Emotions can wreck a relationship. But if you desire a strong marriage, you must love even when you're mad!

Yet channeling that anger can be frustrating. You want to be right, or prove your spouse is wrong.

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Love is not a convenience. It's not about getting your way and showing affection only when you get something in return.

Marriage is a two-way street. Love is a verb. Put the two together and that requires work!

And that work can be easy at times and challenging at other times.

So what happens typically when you get mad at your spouse?

• You storm out of the room in a huff.
• Your tone of voice changes and has a bite to it.
• You yell loudly with great emphasis.
• You walk away quietly not doing anything because you believe the situation is hopeless.
• You are short with him throughout the rest of the evening.
• You play the silent game; no speaking, only dirty looks.
• You may even sting him with your fiery laser eyes.
• You might have even thrown a few things.

Of course, this might be the tip of the iceberg.

What can you do when you are plain, plum mad?

LOVE!!!

Love is an action.

Love is patient. Love is kind. (1 Corinthians 13:4)

Love requires us to decide whether to act or not to act. Either way, you are taking action. Just one, though, lives up to what God commands of us.

And that means to love even when you're mad!

1. Create a presence of calmness and self-control.
2. Convey an attitude with a gentle heart; this uses your attitude to guide your responses toward your spouse.
3. Serve with a grateful heart. (No expectations of a return on your investment; altruism.)
4. Forgive quicker and love deeper. (When you forgive quickly, your heart is free to love deeper.)

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