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Why Waiting for Her to Change Won’t Work (And What Will)

Author
Alisa Stoddard
Published
Fri 27 Jun 2025
Episode Link
https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/podcasts/create-more-intimacy-a-podcast-for-men/episodes/2149048849

If you’ve ever thought, “This would be so much easier if she would just change,” this episode is for you.


You’ve backed off. You’ve done more. You’ve kept the peace.
And still - you feel unseen, unwanted, and like you can’t win.
So what now?


In this episode, I talk directly to the man who’s feeling stuck.
We unpack why waiting for your wife to change doesn’t work,
what’s really happening when conversations feel tense or shut down,
and how you can start shifting the pattern - without guilt, pressure, or walking on eggshells.


You’ll learn:




  • Why emotional shutdown is costing you connection




  • What to do instead of “fixing” or avoiding her big emotions




  • How to shift communication from defensive to connective




  • Why deep change in you leads to meaningful change in her




This isn’t about blaming or performing.
It’s about learning to lead differently - starting with yourself.


Ready to stop walking on eggshells and start building real connection?
Let’s go.


Book your call here


Want more info: https://solo.to/alisastoddard

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