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When Jokes Become Criticism and Silence Becomes Distance

Author
Alisa Stoddard
Published
Fri 13 Jun 2025
Episode Link
https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/podcasts/create-more-intimacy-a-podcast-for-men/episodes/2149036157

Let’s talk about emotional immaturity - and how it’s showing up in the way you communicate.


If you give your wife the silent treatment, if you crack jokes that are actually criticism, if you pull away when things get tense - or explode when you feel cornered - this episode is for you.


These patterns might feel normal… but they’re not harmless.
They’re slowly creating the very distance you’re frustrated by.


In this episode, I break down:




  • What emotional immaturity in communication actually looks like




  • How it leads to resentment and misunderstanding




  • Why silence, sarcasm, and defensiveness aren’t strength - they’re avoidance




  • How to start asking real questions and showing up with empathy




  • What changes when you stop trying to control and start connecting




If you want something deeper than surface-level peace - this is where it starts.


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