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Unspoken Expectations Are Killing Your Marriage

Author
Alisa Stoddard
Published
Fri 12 Sep 2025
Episode Link
https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/podcasts/create-more-intimacy-a-podcast-for-men/episodes/2149084770

Do you ever feel like your wife doesn’t notice all you do? You work hard, provide, show up - and yet you’re left feeling unseen and unappreciated.


This episode is all about unspoken expectations in marriage - why they’re so destructive, how they lead to resentment, and what you can do instead.


You’ll learn:




  • Why waiting to be noticed never works




  • How unspoken expectations turn into scorekeeping and resentment




  • The role fear of rejection plays in this cycle




  • The shift you need to make to stop outsourcing your worth




  • How to use the CLEAR ask to create clarity and connection




If you’ve been silently waiting for appreciation - or blowing up when you don’t get it - this conversation will help you break that cycle.


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