Men Don’t Cry: The Emotional Cost of Shutting Down

You were never taught how to feel - only how to hide.

Maybe it was your dad, your coach, or just the way people looked at you when you got upset… but at some point, you got the message loud and clear:
“Toughen up. Don’t cry. Handle it.”

And you did.
But that came at a cost.

In this episode, we’re talking about the emotional toll of being taught to shut down - how it shows up in your marriage, your parenting, and your ability to connect. You’ll hear real stories from men who didn’t realize how much they were holding in until it started costing them everything they wanted.

If you’ve ever been called emotionally unavailable...
If your wife says she doesn’t feel connected to you anymore…
If you’ve done everything you thought you were supposed to do, but still feel alone - this one is for you.

What You’ll Learn:

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  Why “toughen up” felt like strength - but actually created disconnection

  
  


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  How emotional shutdown leads to resentment and distance in your relationship

  
  


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  What it looks like to become emotionally aware (without turning into someone you’re not)

  
  


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  The simple question one client used to change everything

  
  

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