Back Rubs and Sex in Marriage: Why Connection Matters More

Back rubs aren’t working anymore - and deep down, you know why.

In this episode, I’ll break down why back rubs have stopped leading to sex, the damaging myth that “she’d enjoy it if she just gave in,” and what actually creates desire and intimacy in your marriage.

You’ll learn:

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  Why pressure destroys connection (and leaves you both feeling worse)

  
  


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  The shift from obligation sex to real desire

  
  


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  Practical things you can say and do that build intimacy - and one thing you should never say

  
  

If you’ve been feeling rejected, unwanted, or stuck in the same frustrating cycle, this episode will help you understand what your wife really wants - and how to create the kind of emotional connection that makes her want to be close again.

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