The Overthinker’s Guide to Feeling Safe in Sex + Love

Feel like a total badass at work but fall apart over a one-word text from your partner? Yeah—this one’s for you.

In this episode, Courtney breaks down anxious attachment in a way that actually makes sense—no therapy jargon, just real talk for high-achieving women who are sick of spiralling in silence. Learn why you overthink, shut down, and keep chasing emotional safety in all the wrong places—and how to finally get off the anxiety rollercoaster.

This is your no-fluff, luxe AF guide to understanding the emotional wiring behind your bedroom blocks. And the best part? You don’t have to stay stuck.

You’ll learn:

• What anxious attachment really means (and how it shows up in texts, sex, and silence)
• Why high-performing women are wired for over-functioning and fear of abandonment
• Tools to calm your nervous system in the middle of a spiral (aka The Reset Loop™)
• How to feel safe, sexy, and seen—without needing him to text back instantly

If your love life feels like a game of emotional ping pong, it’s time to change the rules.

🔥 Mentioned in This Episode:

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