In this episode, I dive into the topic of threesomes, addressing common questions and concerns. The inspo for this episode came after I received a DM about it, the questions about where to start, how to have the convo and where to look for your third..
There's 10 essential tips to ensure a successful and enjoyable threesome experience, where everyone has a good time! I chat about all the things, from understanding your motivations and communicating super clearly with your partner to planning and choosing the right third person, I cover it all.
Key Points Discussed:
- Know Your Reason: Understand why you want to have a threesome and what you hope to achieve.
- Communication: Talk openly with your partner about your desires, boundaries, and expectations.
- Plan Together: Discuss the details and scenarios you both want to explore.
- Choosing Your Third: Consider hiring a professional or using apps like Feeld or RedHot to find a suitable third person.
- Safety: Ensure STI protection and meet new partners in public places initially.
- Setting the Scene: Plan the location and ambiance, and establish safe words.
- Enjoy the Experience: Keep things light and playful; sex should be fun.
- Debrief Afterwards: Discuss how it went, what you liked, and what could be improved.
- Take Your Time: Be patient in finding the right person and ensure a full-body "yes" before proceeding.
- Be Honest and Reflect: Post-experience, talk about your feelings and any new discoveries.
Additional Tips:
- Engage in regular couple check-ins to maintain a strong foundation of communication and trust.
- Always prioritize mutual consent and comfort throughout the process.Like, share, and subscribe to the podcast, tag @courtney__nolan on social media when sharing this spicy episode.
Enjoy the ep and enhance your relationship with these practical and insightful tips 🌶️