You Don't Own Me – Understanding Domestic Abuse

Championing Survivors with Lucy Wade from You Don't Own Me

Host(s):

• Adam Carter
• Louise Baxter MBE (LouBax)

Guest(s):

• Lucy Wade – Founder of You Don't Own Me (YDOM), a platform for raising awareness of domestic abuse and offering resources and support to survivors.

Episode Summary:

In this powerful episode of the Consumer Friend Podcast, Adam and Louise are joined by Lucy Wade, the founder of You Don't Own Me (YDOM), a platform dedicated to raising awareness around domestic abuse, particularly focusing on post-separation abuse and coercive control. Lucy shares her vast experience working with survivors of abuse, both through her personal advocacy and professional efforts. She talks about the complexities of domestic abuse and how it extends beyond physical violence to emotional, psychological, and financial control.

Lucy’s mission with YDOM is to create a safe, inclusive space where survivors can seek support, understand their experiences, and find the strength to move forward. She also hosts a podcast, "Dip in and Out with Lucy," where she discusses these issues in depth with professionals and survivors alike, creating a much-needed conversation around the topic of domestic abuse.

Key Takeaways:

1. Domestic Abuse Statistics: In England and Wales, one in four women will experience domestic abuse in their lifetime, and police receive a domestic abuse-related call every 30 seconds, yet underreporting remains a huge issue.
2. Post-Separation Abuse: Domestic abuse doesn’t always end when a relationship does. Post-separation abuse, especially coercive control, is a significant and often overlooked aspect of abusive relationships.
3. Empowering Survivors: Lucy’s work emphasizes the importance of empowering survivors, helping them rebuild their confidence and regain control of their lives.
4. Supporting Survivors: Friends and family play a critical role in offering non-judgmental support to those who may be experiencing abuse.
5. Raising Awareness: Platforms like YDOM and Lucy’s podcast aim to break down the barriers of shame and blame, encouraging open conversations about domestic abuse in society.

Resources & Links:

• You Don't Own Me (YDOM) Website – Lucy’s platform for supporting domestic abuse survivors.
• Refuge – Domestic violence help for women and children.
• Women's Aid – National charity working to end domestic abuse against women and children.
• National Domestic Abuse Helpline – For confidential support and advice (Freephone: 0808 2000 247).
• Clare’s Law – The Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme for checking if a partner has a history of abuse.

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