Where Are the Men? The Quiet Revolution of Masculine Healing with Hugh Newton

Hugh shares his personal journey from emotional numbness to wholeness, revealing how patriarchal conditioning restricts men's emotional capacity while perpetuating cycles of trauma. We discover the quiet revolution of men choosing love over competition, the importance of men's groups in creating profound brotherhood, and why foundational healing work often needs to happen in same-gender spaces first. This conversation challenges us to move beyond victim-perpetrator narratives and recognize our shared humanity in the journey toward personal growth, heart-centered leadership, and spiritual connection.

In This Episode, We Explore:

• The Hidden Cost of Patriarchal Conditioning - How the same system that oppresses women also conditions men out of happiness, restricts their emotions, and creates widespread emotional numbness
• Hugh's Personal Transformation - From being able to feel only anger to developing the full spectrum of emotions, and what that journey of healing looks like in practice
• The Quiet Revolution - Why there's a growing movement of men choosing love and service over competition and aggression, and how this impacts families and communities
• Why Men Need Men First - The importance of same-gender healing spaces and how men's groups create profound brotherhood that supports authentic masculinity
• Moving Beyond Simple Narratives - How to shift from victim-perpetrator dynamics to seeing the complex humanity in everyone's healing journey
• The Ripple Effect of Healing - How one person's inner work creates waves of transformation that touch everyone around them
• Practical Pathways - Resources and approaches for men seeking healing community, from initiation work to ongoing men's groups

Key Insights:

• Men are "really deeply longing to serve the world" but often operate from survival mode due to restrictive conditioning
• The revolution toward love and service is "much quieter" but "really strong" and felt in families and communities
• Men doing healing work among other men first helps them access "the beauty and strength and love of my masculine"
• "The world of love is here for all of us" and starts with learning to love ourselves

About Hugh Newton: Hugh has been facilitating men's healing work for 28 years through organisations like the Mankind Project and his own Sovereign's Journey program. He works with men in their 40s and beyond, helping them move from survival mode to authentic service and love.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Mankind Project
• Sovereign's Journey (Hugh's 10-month program for men 40+)
• Journeyman (initiation work for teenage boys)
• Hugh's one-on-one mentoring for men

Connect with Hugh: https://www.thesovereignsjourney.co.uk

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