Christian Dating Advice for Young Adults

Christian dating can be both a beautiful and sometimes comically challenging experience. After all, there’s the mission to honor God while also navigating personal attraction, texting etiquette, and maybe a bit of nervous sweating. So, let’s dig into some practical and funny Christian dating advice that blends faith with a touch of humor.

1. Start with Prayer – And Maybe a Little Patience

Before you even think about swiping, liking, or that casual “how are you?” text, take some time to pray. Seriously. Praying for guidance helps center your heart and can open you up to finding someone who aligns with your values. God’s timing is perfect—even if it feels a little slow. It’s easy to feel like you’re waiting longer than necessary, but remember, Moses wandered the desert for 40 years. Your dating journey probably won’t take that long…hopefully!

Pro Tip:

When you pray for a future partner, think beyond looks or interests. Ask for qualities like kindness, patience, and a sense of humor (you’re going to need it). And while you’re at it, pray that you’ll be able to spot red flags – it’s easy to miss those when someone has a killer smile and quotes 1 Corinthians 13 on the regular.

2. Be Honest About Your Intentions – Without Overloading

It’s important to know what you’re looking for and be clear about it. If you’re dating with marriage in mind, communicate that. But don’t go overboard on date one with wedding plans, okay? Saying, “I’m here because I’m looking for a godly partner who might one day become my spouse” is healthy. Saying, “So… do you think our future kids will have your eyes or mine?” on date one might scare them off. Balance is key.

3. Take Your Time (This Isn’t a Sprint!)

Dating is not a race to the altar. The best relationships grow slowly, just like your faith journey. Get to know each other’s passions, flaws, and that embarrassing childhood hobby. Don’t worry about what everyone else is doing—focus on your own pace, and don’t skip important steps. Remember, just because some couples get engaged after a few months doesn’t mean it’s a race. Your story is unique, so give it time to unfold.

Funny Thought:

Imagine you’re at a track meet where couples race to the altar. You’re pacing yourself when someone sprints by in a wedding gown and tux. Stay in your lane, and know that God has your course mapped out.

4. Keep it Real – You’re Both Human

We all have quirks, and pretending to be a super-perfect Christian isn’t just unrealistic, it’s exhausting. Real connection happens when both people feel safe to be their true selves—awkward moments and all. Remember, it’s okay to let your guard down and laugh about it when you spill water on yourself or misquote a Bible verse. Vulnerability is part of intimacy.

5. Build Emotional and Spiritual Intimacy First

Physical attraction is awesome and natural, but building a strong foundation on emotional and spiritual intimacy makes the relationship stronger. Set boundaries early, not because you have to but because it’s a gift to each other. It may not be the most exciting topic, but talking about boundaries can help prevent misunderstandings and align your relationship goals. And, let’s face it, there’s something truly beautiful about a relationship that’s focused on growth in God before physical attraction.

Practical Tip:

Have those slightly awkward but important conversations. Share your beliefs, talk about your family values, and dig into each other’s faith journeys. It can be surprisingly romantic to pray together, share favorite Bible verses, or discuss Sunday’s sermon.

6. Get Involved in Group Activities (Yes, Third Wheels Can Be Great)

Christian dating doesn’t always have to be one-on-one dinners or sunset strolls. Group settings can be a relaxed,