Leadership Journeys [42] - David Jayatillake - "As a Leader, If you're not involved with your team, you will be isolated."

This is the Leadership Journey series on the Choosing Leadership Podcast.

I believe we all have a lot to learn from each other's stories - of where we started, where we are now, and our successes and struggles on the way. With this series of interviews, my attempt is to give leaders an opportunity to share their stories and for all of us to learn from their generous sharing. If you know a leader whom you would like to see celebrated on the show, please send me a message on LinkedIn with their name.

In the interview, David shares how he grew up with a love for Math and Physics, and how that changed once he started managing people. We spoke about mentoring and coaching, and the important role of emotions and empathy in building strong relationships. He shared an example of how playing football led to a breakthrough in conversation which was not happening otherwise, and that led to an interesting conversation.

You can find David at the below links

• https://www.linkedin.com/in/david-jayatillake-9962748a/

In the interview, David shares

• A lot of people who go into leadership for the first time still think they need to be firing on all cylinders as an individual contributor as well. And really, once you've got a team of three or four, that's actually the minority of your time, the majority of your time is looking after your team.
• And then, suddenly I'm looking after a team of three or four, and I've learned to that I'm supposed to be delegating a fair amount. I think that was helpful for me.
• You need to be doing organizational impact work. And if that's not there, you begin to feel a bit lost.
• if you're not involved, you just get isolated. There's, it's very difficult.