It was quite an eye opener to learn by witnessing how a narcissist was mirroring me very nonchalantly. It was as if she was just following a script and that led me to realize that it is not calculated when a narcissist mirrors you. Although most everything else a narcissist does is calculated, mirroring their target is not. Narcissists have no self-identity so it is easy for them to mirror "on the spot" without having to calculate 'how' they will copy their target. They do study their target for a time too but the mirroring is not calculated while the fantasy they script out in their heads is calculated. You can always learn more about me and this ministry by visiting the links listed below!