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"And sometimes we have to seek out third party assistance to find the support that we need from someone who's not quite as emotionally invested as we are. Whether that's a mediator, a counselor, a therapist, whoever it might be. Find the resources that you need. And if you don't have the resources, ask the universe to put the right people in your path. And then start paying attention for the signs, the answers for what it is that you're asking for."