#102 | Selling the Hamptons Star on Intentional Leadership & Lasting Success | Bianca D’Alessio

Leadership isn’t luck – it’s intentional.

In this powerful episode of The 4 Habits Podcast, Dr. Andrea & Jon Taylor-Cummings sit down with Bianca D’Alessio – top-ranked NYC real estate broker, star of HBO Max’s Selling the Hamptons, and author of Mastering Intentions: 10 Practices to Amplify Your Power and Lead with Lasting Impact.Bianca manages a $10B real estate portfolio, leads one of the highest-performing sales teams in the U.S., and has become a trusted voice on leadership, resilience, and intentional growth. But her story didn’t start at the top – she opens up about earning just $11,000 in her first year, navigating failed partnerships, embracing vulnerability, and building deep trust along the way.This episode explores what it really takes to lead with purpose, why “teamship” beats competition, and how intentional practices can transform both careers and relationships. Whether you’re an entrepreneur, a team leader, or someone striving to grow in influence, Bianca’s lessons on leadership, trust, and collaboration will inspire you to lead with clarity, courage, and lasting impact.

We explore:

• Why intentional leadership creates long-term success
• The “teamship” model for building high-performing cultures
• Daily practices that align vision, values, and action
• How to protect your confidence in high-pressure industries
• Lessons Bianca wants to pass on to the next generation

 

Whether you’re leading a team, growing your career, ornavigating life transitions, this episode shows why intentionality is thedifference between fleeting wins and sustainable success.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS (TIMESTAMPS)

00:00 Why intentionality matters now

03:20 Childhood lessons and early resilience

05:50 From $11K first year to $10B portfolio

07:40 Saying yes to HBO’s Selling the Hamptons

09:44 Lessons from failed partnerships and red flags

12:00 “Teamship”: collaboration over competition

14:35 Building trust and loyalty in high-pressure markets

18:10 Daily practices for aligning with long-term vision

22:45 Leadership advice for the next generation

27:00 How Mastering Intentions is reshapingleadership

NEXT STEPS

A) Make It Personal – Connect with Bianca D’Alessio:

• Get her Book: Mastering Intentions (available onAmazon & major retailers) https://www.amazon.com/Mastering-Intentions-Practices-Amplify-Lasting/dp/B0DMWSWD9R/
• Website: https://www.biancadalessio.com
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancadalessio
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bianca-dalessio
• FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/bianca.dalessio.3

B) Stay Plugged In – Never Miss an Episode:

• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@The4Habits
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C) Continue Your Journey – Learn, Grow, Share:

• Free Relationship Skills Quiz: http://the4habitsquiz.scoreapp.com
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