205. How to Get Your Relationship Shit Together with Gary John Bishop

Author: Jeremy Grater, Zach Tucker, Gary John Bishop
Published: Thu 17 Aug 2023
Episode Link: https://thefitmess.com/205

Everyone wants that amazing, fulfilling, and profoundly connected relationship we’ve all read about and dreamed of with someone who gets you and you get them, and all is wonderful in the world. But what is the reason some of us don’t have it? Maybe you don’t know shit about having an authentically great relationship! That's according to our guest this week. The “Sex Pistols of Self-Help,” Gary John Bishop is also the author of “Love Unfucked: Getting Your Relationship Shit Together.” It’s the latest title from his “Unfuck Yourself” series.

In this episode of The Fit Mess, Gary shares why you need to stop shifting blame in your relationships, take responsibility, and face yourself first if you truly want a real relationship that actually works.

What We Discuss with Gary:

00:00 Intro
2:22 Thoughts create reality
5:36 Why Love UnFu*ked is an important book now
9:58 Which relationships need help
11:22 Self-reflection leads to growth
14:21 Don’t change for other people
19:06 People don’t change but relationships do
24:39 Why you keep attracting assholes
28:17 Can you be loved if you don’t love yourself
30:08 What Gary’s wife thinks about his relationship advice

This episode was originally published January 25th, 2022

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