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Ep. 5 | Controlling Thoughts vs Believing Thoughts: The Key to Mental Freedom

Author
Becky Garner
Published
Wed 03 Sep 2025
Episode Link
https://share.transistor.fm/s/6f0e8cb0

Have you ever had someone tell you to "just stop thinking about it" and you knew you couldn't? In this episode, we dive deep into why trying to control your thoughts actually makes them stronger, and explore a powerful alternative. 

Join me as I break down the neuroscience behind why our brains are designed to think constantly, explore the default mode network that creates our automatic thoughts, and share practical tools for working with your mind instead of against it. You'll discover the difference between controlling thoughts and believing thoughts and get actionable strategies for managing those persistent thoughts that hang around like a loud housefly.

 "The skill of not believing every thought you have is one of the most powerful tools you can learn."

Learn 

  • Why "just stop thinking about it" doesn't work.
  • How trying to control thoughts actually strengthens them.
  • The default mode network and automatic thoughts.
  • The difference between having a thought and believing it.
  • How to treat thoughts like a cheese platter (take what serves you, leave the rest).
  • Tools for the next time you have persistent thoughts.

Resources
Free course: How To Get Unstuck at beckygarnercoaching.com/stuck

Connect
Website: beckygarnercoaching.com

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