Consent, Trauma, & Healing in BDSM

Can BDSM be healing for those who have experienced their consent being abused?   @Andy_Wells and I discuss navigating consent, helping women through bad past experiences, speaking up for needs, and how men can be judged and shamed in the bedroom too.

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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

• (00:00) - Intro
  


• (00:41) - Using BDSM to regain power from trauma
  


• (06:28) - Exploring new boundaries
  


• (18:20) - Learning to say no game
  


• (21:43) - Past experiences of saying no
  


• (26:15) - Speaking up for your needs
  


• (28:31) - When acts are traumatic vs not
  


• (36:50) - Doms can't read minds
  


• (47:03) - Creating safety
  


• (50:13) - Being judged as a man in the bedroom
  


• (01:03:15) - Standing up for your values
  


• (01:09:15) - Introducing your partner to new sex acts

MORE RESOURCES:
▶️ How to Be a Better Dominant (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms): https://youtu.be/Rg9XLPG3vjQ
▶️ 7 Essential Behaviors of a Good Dominant in BDSM: https://youtu.be/X71KFnyNreo
▶️ Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://youtu.be/nvrmToZ8cdc