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11. My Father Wasn't Safe - But God Was: Trusting Again After a Father Wound

Author
Del Smith, M.S., CPC, ELI-MP, Black Christian Woman, Mother, Widow, Survivor
Published
Tue 01 Jul 2025
Episode Link
https://bouncebackblackwoman.podbean.com/e/my-father-wasnt-safe-but-god-was-trusting-again-after-a-father-wound/

This episode may feel tender. If June stirred up old grief or silence for you because of a complicated or painful relationship with your father, this space is for you.


In today’s solo reflection, I share a deeply personal part of my story — the impact of growing up with a father who wasn’t emotionally or physically safe, and how that experience shaped my relationship with trust, with love, and with God.


We’ll walk through:




  • What it means to rebuild trust with God




  • Why spiritual re-parenting matters




  • The truth that your value is not determined by someone else’s brokenness




You’ll also hear scripture reflections, a powerful journal prompt, and a reminder:

You didn’t deserve the pain — but you do deserve the healing.

📖 Referenced Verses:




  • Psalm 27:10




  • Isaiah 64:8 (if you included it)




  • Zephaniah 3:17




  • Optional: Hebrews 12:10 (if mentioned or referenced)




🖊️ Journal Prompt:

Where in my life have I confused God’s character with the failures of a parent or caregiver? What truth do I need to replace that with?

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