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Bottled Up: Help for families of alcoholics and those struggling with alcoholism

Alcoholism and problem drinking is a destructive force, but help is at hand. Join experts Dr. John McMahon and Lou Lewis for kitchen table conversations offering help, advice, coping strategies and encouragement for both people who live with an alcoholic (problem drinker) and people who suffer from alcohol addiction. Alcohol can break up families and we know that living with an alcoholic partner is a stressful situation. At Bottled Up we teach people how to cope with and survive living with an alcoholic. We also help problem drinkers with their addiction with advice and strategies. We provide a program that was devised by Dr John McMahon, who was an alcoholic, and Lou Lewis, his wife, a trained relationship counsellor and who was married to an alcoholic for 29 years. The Bottled Up program is innovative and advocates that the partners of alcoholics can introduce changes to their lives, which will empower them and influence their drinkers to change. If you live with an alcoholic partner, or are looking for help to quit drinking, then Bottled Up is for you.


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Update frequency
every 3 days
Average duration
14 minutes
Episodes
19
Years Active
2025
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Quick Take - Breaking Point?

Quick Take - Breaking Point?

Your body and mind may be telling you, you have had had enough. Emotions and their physical symptoms are signs you need to look after yourself and you may be at breaking point. It is essential you lo…

00:03:32  |   Thu 04 Sep 2025
Part 2 - Surviving the emotional rollercoaster

Part 2 - Surviving the emotional rollercoaster

Living with an alcoholic sometimes seems impossible. You will experience so many different emotions, hope, anxiety, anger, and depression. Join Lou and John for a conversation as they talk about the …

00:33:53  |   Mon 01 Sep 2025
Quick Take - Use anger as fuel for change

Quick Take - Use anger as fuel for change

You will get angry, it's natural and it's legitimate. You must not be hard on yourself if you do get angry, it's what you do with that anger that matters. Lou suggests to use anger as fuel for change…

00:02:28  |   Thu 28 Aug 2025
Part 1 - Surviving the emotional rollercoaster

Part 1 - Surviving the emotional rollercoaster

Living with an alcoholic is very difficult and sometimes feels impossible. You must not feel bad about yourself, but it is likely you may experience so many different emotions, hope, anxiety, anger, …

00:33:37  |   Mon 25 Aug 2025
Quick Take - Embrace Change

Quick Take - Embrace Change

When you make changes that benefit you, it can prompt changes in your drinker. Lead the dance, don't follow.


For more information on the service Bottled Up provides, visit: www.bottled-up.com


Dr John M…

00:03:30  |   Thu 21 Aug 2025
Take Care of Yourself

Take Care of Yourself

When living with an alcoholic you're so concerned about helping your drinker, it doesn't always occur to you that you also need help. You must take care of yourself. Join Lou and John as they talk ab…

00:16:36  |   Mon 18 Aug 2025
Quick Take - Talk about it

Quick Take - Talk about it

Many people don't talk about their situation of living with an alcoholic. By talking to other people, we get rid of the stigma. You are not at fault. Alcoholics are not children. They make their own …

00:06:04  |   Thu 14 Aug 2025
Is it my fault?

Is it my fault?

Living with an alcoholic is extremely stressful. Not only are you having to cope with the alcoholic's behaviour, you can also feel very guilty. You can start to believe that your situation is your fa…

00:21:17  |   Mon 11 Aug 2025
Quick Take - The Patience of a Saint

Quick Take - The Patience of a Saint

Living with an alcoholic can seem impossible. All your natural, and completely justified, reactions to their behaviour don't seem to work. Why? Because you're not just talking to somebody you love, y…

00:06:10  |   Thu 07 Aug 2025
Struggling with an alcoholic - STOP doing these things

Struggling with an alcoholic - STOP doing these things

This episode is essential for anybody living with an alcoholic. Lou and John talk about four things you must stop doing to make your life with an alcoholic better.

Stop Picking a fight, Stop Punishin…

00:24:42  |   Mon 04 Aug 2025
Quick Take - A Friend Like Me

Quick Take - A Friend Like Me

Shortly after getting sober, John had a breakthrough. It was the road to recovery – recovery from alcoholism and recovering who he really was.


For more information on the service Bottled Up provides, …

00:02:05  |   Thu 31 Jul 2025
Hope - for you and the alcoholic

Hope - for you and the alcoholic

Hope can sometimes seem very far away, or so close that the thought of it sometimes seems to good to be true. But there is hope, real hope. It is there in the thousands of people who are in recovery …

00:31:17  |   Mon 28 Jul 2025
Quick Take - Alcohol is the missing piece of the jigsaw

Quick Take - Alcohol is the missing piece of the jigsaw

Alcohol is the missing piece of the jigsaw for many alcoholics. In this clip from episode 3, John talks about how alcohol gave him "liquid personality" and it felt like the bit of him that "god left …

00:02:18  |   Thu 24 Jul 2025
Why can't alcoholics recognise the problem?

Why can't alcoholics recognise the problem?

In this fascinating episode, join John and Lou for a kitchen table conversation as they talk about the key subject, "Why can't alcoholics recognise the problem?". It is an essential episode for peopl…

00:34:08  |   Mon 21 Jul 2025
Quick Take - Checklist for making your decision to stay or leave an alcoholic

Quick Take - Checklist for making your decision to stay or leave an alcoholic

Deciding to stay with, or leave, your alcoholic partner is a big decision. In this clip from episode two, here is the checklist you will want to consider.


For more information on the service Bottled U…

00:02:47  |   Thu 17 Jul 2025
Should I stay? Or should I go? Living with an alcoholic

Should I stay? Or should I go? Living with an alcoholic

Please note, if you are under any threat, go. Seek help and advice, and remove yourself from a dangerous situation. Safety first.


In this episode of kitchen table conversation, John and Lou look at on…

00:19:39  |   Mon 14 Jul 2025
Quick Take

Quick Take "They're not there" - Alcohol creates an absence in your relationship - living with an alcoholic

In this clip from Episode 2 "Is my partner an alcoholic or am I making a fuss?", John and Lou discuss the effect of alcohol on a relationship. If your partner is lying on the sofa drunk, then physica…

00:04:36  |   Fri 11 Jul 2025
Is my partner an alcoholic or am I making a fuss?

Is my partner an alcoholic or am I making a fuss?

Join John and Lou for a kitchen table conversation as they consider one of the fundamental questions of problem drinking - assessing whether your partner is an alcoholic. You might think there is a p…

00:27:59  |   Mon 07 Jul 2025
Meet your hosts John and Lou

Meet your hosts John and Lou

John and Lou are here to help you change your life. In this short episode they talk a little about their experiences with problem drinkers and alcohol addiction.


Dr John McMahon is a professor and was…

00:02:15  |   Sun 06 Jul 2025
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