25 | When Lunch Feels Like the Hardest Part of the Day

Lunch is supposed to be a break, but for many teens and young adults, it feels like one of the most stressful parts of the day. Walking into the cafeteria can trigger racing thoughts, sweaty palms, and the fear of sitting alone. If you’ve ever avoided eating, hidden in the bathroom, or wished someone would just wave you over, this episode is for you.

In today’s episode of Block Out the Noise, Jessica Davis, licensed therapist and mindset coach, breaks down seven practical tools to help you face social anxiety at lunch with more courage and confidence. From grounding techniques to finding safe spaces, rejection therapy, and even tech tools designed to help, you’ll learn strategies that make lunch feel less like a battlefield and more like a chance to breathe, reset, and connect.

✨ In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

• Why lunch isn’t just about food — it’s about belonging
• What’s really happening in your body when social anxiety kicks in
• How to ground yourself before you walk into the cafeteria
• The surprising way a sketchbook, book, or crossword puzzle can become a bridge to connection
• How to choose spaces and programs that make lunch less overwhelming
• The role of rejection therapy in building resilience
• Why asking for support is a sign of strength, not failure

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This podcast was created by Davis-Smith Mental Health, offering counseling for teens & young adults in Illinois (only). We accept BCBS PPO, Aetna PPO, and self-pay clients.

⚠️ Disclaimer: Block Out the Noise provides personal insights and practical strategies to help manage anxiety and self-doubt. The content is intended for educational and informational purposes only and should not be used as a substitute for professional mental health care, advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing a crisis or need immediate assistance, please contact emergency services or a trusted mental health professional immediately.