65: Breaking the Shell - How Men's Intensives Unlock Embodied Healing
- Author
- Luke Gordon with Choose Recovery Services
- Published
- Thu 14 Aug 2025
- Episode Link
- https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beyondthefacadewithchoose/episodes/65-Breaking-the-Shell---How-Mens-Intensives-Unlock-Embodied-Healing-e36f4b9
You know the recovery scripts by heart, but when your partner is triggered, it still feels performative and hollow. Sound familiar?
In this powerful episode, Luke welcomes Hali Roderick (fellow Choose To Be coach) and Tim, a participant from the recent Help Her Heal Men’s Intensive. Tim shares how somatic work and community vulnerability can crack open the shells we've built around our hearts, moving us from performative recovery to authentic healing.
What You'll Learn:
Why recovery scripts fall short and how to embody real empathy
How body-based healing breaks through emotional barriers
Why vulnerability in community accelerates healing
Chapters
01:06 Meet Hali and Tim
03:58 The Purpose of the Help Her Heal Intensive
09:36 Somatic Work: The Key to Healing
16:15 The Value of Community
20:41 The Nervous System’s Response to Trauma
24:20 Being Ready For Change
26:39 Family of Origin Analogy
Register Now!
Our next men’s intensive is coming up! Unmasked: Path to Authentic Masculinity is a four-day in-person experience designed to help men delve deep into understanding integrity, unveiling layers of shame, and reclaiming their authentic selves. Intensive will be held in Spanish Fork, UT on September 16th-19th. Learn more and register HERE.
- Revive and Thrive Women’s Intensive - Join us for a transformative four-day somatic healing intensive for women carrying trauma and tension in their bodies. Experience gentle release through expert-guided breathwork, brainspotting, energy healing, and nature immersion as you reclaim your body. Intensive is Aug 26-29 in Spanish Fork, Utah.
- Worthy By Design Women’s Retreat - This four-day retreat is for women ready to reconnect with their authentic selves and step into their unique design. Experience Human Design exploration, somatic healing, breathwork, sound baths, and sisterhood in the stunning Utah mountains. Perfect for any and all women seeking renewal, clarity, and joy. Retreat is September 14th-17th in Mapleton, UT.
We don’t want finances to get in the way of your healing. Scholarships and payment plans are available for all of our intensives. Learn more and see if you qualify.
Connect With Us:
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Wanting more? Choose Recovery Services offers many courses specifically for men:
Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - This group helps men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You’ll learn how to better connect with others, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deeper sense of self respect.
Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication.
Additional Resources from Choose Recovery Services:
Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round. Our intensives foster connection with others who share similar experiences, creating an immersive environment that enables profound transformation in a short period of time.
Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal.
Choose To Be Podcast - This podcast focuses on helping women heal from infidelity and betrayal trauma.
Healing Hearts - This is for couples seeking healing after betrayal. It emphasizes the development of empathy, integrity, and authentic intimacy.
Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma. First four weeks are free!
Learn more and register for courses at chooserecoveryservices.com
