37: From Curiosity to Connection

This week Luke tackles one of the most challenging aspects of relationships: staying grounded when your partner is triggered. 

Learn how the CAVR method, focusing on curiosity, isn’t just a communication tool–it’s actually a powerful way to regulate yourself and stay within your window of tolerance during difficult conversations. 

Chapters

• 01:32 Introducing the CAVR Tool

  
  



• 02:17 Curiosity Can Help

  
  



• 04:53 Real Life Applications

  
  



• 08:11 Validating and Acknowledging Emotions

  
  

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