Behind the Paddle
Welcome to "Behind the Paddle", the podcast that explores the fascinating world of sex across a wide spectrum of topics; from LGBTQ+ and feminine power, to kink, sex work and the adult industry. We aim to inform, inspire and entertain, featuring expert interviews, compelling stories, and thought provoking discussions.
Join Porcelain Victoria (a very experienced Pro-Dominatrix of 8yrs) on a funny and wonderfully truthful look at the world through the lens of a BDSM practitioner working in the sex industry.
She will also be answering listeners questions about real-life queries which will be discussed on the podcast. These can be sent in via email or through any
socials.
Email: behindthepaddlepodcast(at)gmail.com
Our socials: https://allmylinks.com/behindthepaddle
- Update frequency
- every 5 days
- Average duration
- 48 minutes
- Episodes
- 89
- Years Active
- 2024 - 2025
E89: Secrets in the Sheets: Husbands, Fetishes, and the Cost of Silence
Welcome to Behindthepaddle. I’m Porcelain Victoria, and this episode… is a tender one.
Today, we’re stepping into the bedroom but not just for fun. We’re pulling open the drawer of secre…
E88: How to be you part 4
What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our u…
E87:Crayons, Contracts, and Care: Inside the World of DDLG and Caregiver/Little Dynamics
Behindthepaddle Podcast invites you inside one of the most tender, misunderstood, and intimate corners of the BDSM world: Caregiver/little dynamics.
We explore the acronyms (DDLG, CGL, M…
E86: How to be you part 3
What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our u…
E85:Kink vs Fetish
In this episode, I dive into one of the questions I hear all the time: what’s the difference between a kink and a fetish? These two words get thrown around a lot, but they aren’t the sa…
E84:How to be you part 2
Hello welcome to Behindthepaddle podcast, what happens when your brain constantly pulls you in opposite directions? When one part craves structure while another needs novelty, or when o…
E83: Beyond The Dungeon: Exploring SSC, RACK & PRICK in BDSM
Welcome to Behind the Paddle podcast. Today we are speaking about BDSM not as a hobby, not as a kink to be giggled at behind closed doors, and not as a fleeting curiosity but as a world…
How to be you part 1
Hello welcome to Behindthepaddle podcast, what happens when your brain constantly pulls you in opposite directions? When one part craves structure while another needs novelty, or when o…
E81: How It all began- How i become a whoreified deviant
Hello and welcome back to Behind the paddle podcast in todays episode I share my deeply personal journey into sex work, from discovering sexuality through late-night TV at 12 to perform…
E80:Revolting Prostitutes p22 Finale
Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 215-221 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal vi…
E79: I was Charged with Brothel Keeping part 2 Brothel keeping laws
In this raw and urgent episode of Behindthepaddle, host Porcelain Victoria breaks her silence after being charged under Scotland’s archaic brothel-keeping laws—laws that criminalize sex…
E78:Revolting Prostitutes p21
Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 204-215 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal vi…
E77: I was charged with Brothel Keeping Part 1 My Story
One knock on the door changed everything. Twenty police officers with a battering ram stood ready to break down my door – all because I, a dominatrix, had created a safe workspace with …
E76: Tethered Hearts: The Sacred Art of Aftercare in BDSM
Welcome to Behindthepaddle podcast with me, Porcelain Victoria.
In this deeply personal and richly detailed episode, we unravel the sacred, often overlooked practice of aftercare in BDS…
E75:Revolting Prostitutes p20
Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 193-203 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal vi…
E74: Rope Bondage with Miss Fay Morgan Part 2
Welcome to BehindthePaddle Podcast in today’s episode we will be speaking to the amazing Miss Fay Morgan.
Rope bondage transcends the physical act of tying knots, creating a profound ps…
E73:Revolting Prostitutes p19
Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 182-192 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal vi…
E72: Rope Bondage with Miss Fay Morgan Part 1
In this deeply textured episode of Behindthepaddle, Porcelain Victoria is joined by the enigmatic and skilled rope practitioner @MissFayMorgan whose eight years of experience in shibari…
E71:Revolting Prostitutes p18
Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 172-182 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal vi…
E70:The Sexy Side of Healing: Virgin Island's Somatica Method Explained
In this provocative episode of Behindthepaddle podcast we explore kink, shame, and embodied consent, I sit down with Celeste Hirschman and Dr. Danielle Harel, co-founders of the Somatic…