How long should we stew on the legitimate wrongs others commit against us? Joseph has 20 years to think about it. When the bad guys show up, Joseph's difficult interior work has already been done, before they even say a word. Based on his behavior, he doesn't say, "I’ll NEVER forgive" but "I’ve forgiven you ALREADY"
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