023 Gay Advice

This is episode twenty-two of the Baehr and Curadh podcast. We're going to discuss gay advice.

"Communicate, and don't assume that you are on the same page or that anything should be considered 'common sense' and doesn't need to be addressed."
"Do. Not. Fall. For. A. Straight. Guy."
"When a straight guy is being nice to you, it doesn't automatically mean he wants to have sex with you."
"Just because he's screwing you doesn't mean he loves you."
"Don't even begin to crush on someone unless you know for a fact that you have a chance. This will save you a lot of heartbreak."
"Always keep good people and friends in your life. A good friend is worth so much. A great friend is worth their weight in gold."
"If you only make friends with potential sexual partners, you will miss out on many amazing relationships."
"It's not a compliment when someone says, 'You don't look gay,' and you should never
take it as one."
"If you cheat, be prepared to be hated for not just months but for decades."
"Shit happens. Just get comfortable with it."
"When relating to older gays, remember that's going to be you sooner than you think."
"Don't bang your coworkers or boss."
"If you see someone on Grindr, you don't mention in public that you saw them on Grindr. Ever."
"This is not gay specific, but consent. Not just regarding intercourse itself, but also every other specific, non-vanilla action. Disclose kinks beforehand."
"Openly ask your man what gets him off. You'll be surprised."
"When you think you've applied enough lube, add more."
"Dicks come in various shapes and sizes, and they can all be amazing. Don't obsess about the size as the only thing that is important."
"Just because we're gay doesn't mean we want to fuck you."
"Do not out anyone."
"If a guy says no, don't touch his dick."
"Ask first before you send a dick pic."
"Queer people in general — but especially gay men — should know more about queer history."