Episode 9: How to Stop Being a Beginner All the Time
You’re allowed to learn. You’re not meant to live in restart mode forever.
Hello, my little badasses — this episode is your wake-up call (with love).
You’re not failing. You’re not broken.
You’re just stuck in beginner mode… and it’s time to finally move forward.
This isn’t about shaming beginners — being a beginner is brave.
But staying stuck in the start–stop cycle for months (or years) isn’t growth — it’s perfectionism and fear in disguise.
Today, I’ll help you break the pattern, step into progress, and finally finish what you start.
You don’t need a new plan.
You need to stop ghosting yourself.
You need structure, support, and a system that works when life gets lifey.
You need someone in your corner who gets it — and who can walk you all the way through it.
Let’s make this the last time you ever start over again.
In This Episode
- Why you're not actually "starting over" — you're just stuck in restart mode
- The difference between being a beginner and staying stuck in beginner identity
- Why perfectionism hides behind “I’m still figuring it out”
- What follow-through really looks like in real life (spoiler: it’s not sexy)
- Why coaching is the container that helps you finally finish what you start
- What to do when motivation fades and life goes sideways
- How to stop waiting for “the right time” — and use this season to actually rise
Top 7 Takeaways
- You are not broken — you’re just stuck in restart mode
- There’s a difference between being new and staying stuck
- Starting over is a pattern — not a solution
- You’ve done the work. You’re ready to rise
- This season is your space to recommit
- Follow-through isn’t perfection — it’s consistency with support
- Coaching gives you the tools to finally finish what you start
Journal Prompts
- Where have I been hiding in beginner mode to avoid messy progress?
- What is one thing I’ve started that I know it’s time to finish?
- What would change if I stayed in it — even when it felt boring or hard?
Mantra of the Week
“I don’t need to start over. I just need to keep going.”
Say it. Write it. Move like you mean it.
Ready to Stop Starting Over?
One-on-one coaching with me is now open for September.
This is your time to:
- Step out of the start–stop cycle
- Build real structure
- Stay consistent — even when life gets lifey
- Become the woman who finishes what she starts
To apply:
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Stay fierce, stay nourished, and I’ll see you next week.