What I Learnt From My Doctor Friend Dying of Cancer.

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Navigating the stormy seas of loss, I've come to realize that each wave of grief brings its own lessons. Our latest episode is a tender journey through the heartache of losing friends and mentors, as I open up about the raw edges of mourning a friend's sudden departure. Through tears and laughter, I've clung to gallows humor as a life raft, finding solace in the shared understanding of colleagues and the power of reflection. It's a personal exploration of the different textures of loss I've experienced – from the harrowing days following a teenage friend's suicide to the piercing void left by the passing of a fellow doctor.

As we traverse the landscape of sorrow, we find ourselves at the intersection of vulnerability and the stark realization of our own mortality, especially poignant within the medical community. The shattering loss of my stepdad and a colleague serves as a stark reminder that life's final curtain can fall unexpectedly, even for those who spend their days postponing it for others. The episode is a heartfelt admittance of the fears that accompany turning thirty, with its lurking specters of cancer and other health concerns, and a tribute to those whose lives have left indelible marks on our own.

Yet, amidst the darkness, there's an awakening—a beacon calling us to seize the day and chart a course for a life filled with purpose and joy. I share my newfound zest for adventures like embracing van life's minimalist ethos and the deliberate pursuit of financial freedom to fuel my wanderlust. The conversation is an invitation to consider how the finality of loss can catalyze the pursuit of cherished moments with loved ones and a life lived intentionally, not just endured. Join me as we find the courage to forge a path illuminated by the memories of those we've loved and lost.

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