Episode 164: Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith | Healing From Betrayal

In this episode, Clint Davis hosts Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith, who share their journey of healing and recovery from betrayal in their marriage. They discuss the importance of emotional regulation, the impact of betrayal trauma, and the necessity of individual work in recovery. The conversation emphasizes building trust and vulnerability through the intimacy pyramid, the role of community in recovery, and the significance of compassion and accountability in relationships. They encourage couples to seek help and remind listeners that their stories do not dictate their futures, highlighting the transformative power of recovery and faith.

Website: https://raabsmithteam.com/

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

03:11 Discovery Day: The Revelation of Betrayal

05:57 The Journey of Healing and Recovery

08:54 Understanding Betrayal Trauma

11:58 The Importance of Individual Work in Recovery

15:07 Building Trust and Vulnerability

18:10 The Intimacy Pyramid: Foundations of Healthy Relationships

21:02 The Role of Community in Recovery

23:52 The Power of Shared Experiences

27:01 The Impact of Past Trauma on Relationships

29:57 The Importance of Compassion and Accountability

32:55 Encouragement for Couples in Recovery

35:54 Final Thoughts and Resources