My partner FREQUENTLY MENTIONS the EXCELLENCE of her former partner and even advised

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Summary: My partner frequently mentions the excellence of her former partner and even advises me to learn from him. I feel insecure and unsure how to address this situation without sounding jealous or controlling. 
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