Healing From Losing My Nephew to Gun Violence at 20 (Tomeaka Trahan's Story)

Tomeaka Trahan shares the day she got the call that her 20-year-old nephew was shot and killed, the weight of becoming the family matriarch after also losing her brother, and the complex grief that followed. She opens up about guilt, love, and protecting his legacy, then moves into the “good heart” she found again through home, community, and hosting her first Halloween party. This is an honest story of loss, resilience, and choosing to live fully.

Tomeaka Trahan is a punky, big-hearted leader who loves giving back. She’s dedicated to teaching young adults the practical skills they need to handle life’s responsibilities and create a solid foundation for their future.

Disclaimer: The stories shared in this episode are the personal experiences and perspectives of the guest. They do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of Art of Heart or its host.

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Remember, you don’t need to have it all figured out, you just have to be willing to listen to your heart.

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