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61. Why Conflict Resolution Isn't About Communication Techniques

Author
Kelle Cobble & Nina Lynch
Published
Tue 29 Apr 2025
Episode Link
https://www.kelleandnina.com/podcast/conflict-resolution-communication-nervous-system

Have you ever noticed that no matter how many relationship books you read or communication workshops you attend, you still end up having the same fights? That's because we've been approaching conflict all wrong. The "when you do X, I feel Y" statements aren't fixing the real problem underneath.

 

We're here to blow your mind with this truth: conflict resolution isn't primarily about communication techniques—it's about understanding your nervous system. When tension builds and disagreements happen, your body isn't reacting to the current situation. It's responding to everything it has ever learned about what conflict means to you. This changes everything about how we approach disagreements. 

 

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.ambitious-ish.com/61

 

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